For Other People’s Benefit

It can be difficult to distinguish between doing things for others for their own benefit, and doing things for others for your own satisfaction of feeling good through your goodness.

Sometimes it is better to let someone struggle and allow them to use their own creative ability to solve problems, even if they find it scary, because you know it is the best possible thing they can do at their current level of awareness to progress further.

The most freeing feeling a human being can have is a sense of personal control and personal power.

Always ask yourself what the best decision is you can make to help someone progress.

Someone you care about.

Sometimes it is being there helping them. 

Others it is looking them in the eye and saying “you will come up with something, I believe in you” and letting them go.